NO MY KNIFE

NO MY KNIFE

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agoodcartoon:

Women have an unfair advantage in business because they can get to the top in much fewer steps. An MRA cartoon. - credit to Poopy Palpy

agoodcartoon:

Women have an unfair advantage in business because they can get to the top in much fewer steps. An MRA cartoon.
- credit to Poopy Palpy

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moonlightamidmountains:

southernshellsandweddingbells:

THIS IS LITERALLY A DESCRIPTION OF MY LIFE

Twice the look, half the effort

moonlightamidmountains:

southernshellsandweddingbells:

THIS IS LITERALLY A DESCRIPTION OF MY LIFE

Twice the look, half the effort

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asker

Anonymous asked: Vastderp, what exactly is the defining characteristic of self-pity that sets it apart from genuine sadness?

vastderp:

self-pity has a few major characteristics:

  • Catastrophizing things (phrases with “never” and “always” usually fit this)
  • Repetition of the complaint
  • Inability to move on to the “fixing shit” stage
  • Blaming others
  • Fixation on what you “deserve” versus what you got
  • Irrational expectations of others to make the problem go away
  • Anger when they don’t
  • Responds to all advice with excuses
  • Stubbornly refuses to make any changes

but i wouldn’t know which one to single out as the most obvious.

self-pity is not necessarily separate from sadness, imo. i would say it’s a form of prolonged sadness that lacks initiative to make it better.

lazili:


Anonymous asked you:
it would be so mind-blowingly incredible if you did a kanaya x rose drawing. could you? :)


I feel like this is long overdue…

lazili:

Anonymous asked you:

it would be so mind-blowingly incredible if you did a kanaya x rose drawing. could you? :)

I feel like this is long overdue…

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